Comments on: My Family, My Drama http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/2008/11/my-family-my-drama.htm Life Through Ebony Colored Lenses Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:29:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Tafari http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/2008/11/my-family-my-drama.htm/comment-page-1#comment-4813 Tafari Sun, 23 Nov 2008 05:53:00 +0000 http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/?p=694#comment-4813 Liz - All I can say is she ain't coming out here to live. LOL!!! That is Suite Suzy's stand on my brother & I feel her.<br/><br/>AnnaC - I talked to my mom last night around 1am, & I just let her talk to get things off her chest. She seemed to feel better after it was over. My brother is a part time job for her because she is his guardian, not to mention mother.<br/><br/>Daez - "it's amazing how sometimes they are so on point you literally think they are truly getting messages from beyond" I know, so you know I was really feeling like, should I just stay up in this dam house or what! <br/><br/>"I will always believe my brothers are the reason my mom is no longer here" wow, that is deep & really something to think about because stress will fuck you up especially when you are at the end of your rope & this type of shit will make you go there!<br/><br/>Although the ladies in my life drive me up a fucking wall sometimes, I am happy that they are here because they do add balance as you noted.<br/><br/>I love Asar, he & his brother Tony are destined for great things. At least they better be because they will get a beat down from Uncle Brother. LOL!!!<br/><br/>Tafari Liz – All I can say is she ain't coming out here to live. LOL!!! That is Suite Suzy's stand on my brother & I feel her.

AnnaC – I talked to my mom last night around 1am, & I just let her talk to get things off her chest. She seemed to feel better after it was over. My brother is a part time job for her because she is his guardian, not to mention mother.

Daez – "it's amazing how sometimes they are so on point you literally think they are truly getting messages from beyond" I know, so you know I was really feeling like, should I just stay up in this dam house or what!

"I will always believe my brothers are the reason my mom is no longer here" wow, that is deep & really something to think about because stress will fuck you up especially when you are at the end of your rope & this type of shit will make you go there!

Although the ladies in my life drive me up a fucking wall sometimes, I am happy that they are here because they do add balance as you noted.

I love Asar, he & his brother Tony are destined for great things. At least they better be because they will get a beat down from Uncle Brother. LOL!!!

Tafari

]]> By: daez http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/2008/11/my-family-my-drama.htm/comment-page-1#comment-4803 daez Fri, 21 Nov 2008 23:41:00 +0000 http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/?p=694#comment-4803 Oh Boo I soo feel you on the schizo brother thing...it's amazing how sometimes they are so on point you literally think they are truly getting messages from beyond...and trust, I had TWO schizo brothers (oldest one passed on)....you just have to learn to detach your self mentally wnile loving them emotionally...it's just way to much pain to deal with otherwise...I feel for your mom...I will always believe my brothers are the reason my mom is no longer here, dealing with the emotional stress between them and her siblings...good thing you are a strong man Tafari, with a solid relationship with SS and the girls...that normalcy makes all the difference in the world, puts you on solid footing if you know what I mean...<br/><br/>Congrats on the new nephew....maybe he's a mini-you (LOL)...(((HUGS)))<br/>....just me...daez Oh Boo I soo feel you on the schizo brother thing…it’s amazing how sometimes they are so on point you literally think they are truly getting messages from beyond…and trust, I had TWO schizo brothers (oldest one passed on)….you just have to learn to detach your self mentally wnile loving them emotionally…it’s just way to much pain to deal with otherwise…I feel for your mom…I will always believe my brothers are the reason my mom is no longer here, dealing with the emotional stress between them and her siblings…good thing you are a strong man Tafari, with a solid relationship with SS and the girls…that normalcy makes all the difference in the world, puts you on solid footing if you know what I mean…

Congrats on the new nephew….maybe he’s a mini-you (LOL)…(((HUGS)))
….just me…daez

]]> By: AnnaC http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/2008/11/my-family-my-drama.htm/comment-page-1#comment-4802 AnnaC Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:23:00 +0000 http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/?p=694#comment-4802 Ah the family....they add spice and warmth but sometimes it's too hot and it burns.<br/><br/>As I read your latest family drama I see both -- the pain and the joy and the mix of the two.<br/><br/>I hope you have a great visit with your sis and nephews... and that you can send your mom some psychic strength to deal with your brother... <br/><br/>and mostly peace for you! Ah the family….they add spice and warmth but sometimes it’s too hot and it burns.

As I read your latest family drama I see both — the pain and the joy and the mix of the two.

I hope you have a great visit with your sis and nephews… and that you can send your mom some psychic strength to deal with your brother…

and mostly peace for you!

]]> By: Los Angelista http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/2008/11/my-family-my-drama.htm/comment-page-1#comment-4801 Los Angelista Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:06:00 +0000 http://mindspill.bygbaby.com/?p=694#comment-4801 It's so hard, isn't it, because you want to give them a beat down for saying stuff like this but you can't because they really can't help it. I am especially feeling you because my niece is both bi-polar and schizophrenic and this has been a week of major acting out behavior for her. My mom has been calling me up crying at 3 am, talking about what's gonna happen to my niece because she's on the street in a homeless shelter. It's a mess. All I can say is she ain't coming out here to live. Nope.<br/><br/>You hang in there, Tafari. All this will pass. Hopefully sooner rather than later, right? It’s so hard, isn’t it, because you want to give them a beat down for saying stuff like this but you can’t because they really can’t help it. I am especially feeling you because my niece is both bi-polar and schizophrenic and this has been a week of major acting out behavior for her. My mom has been calling me up crying at 3 am, talking about what’s gonna happen to my niece because she’s on the street in a homeless shelter. It’s a mess. All I can say is she ain’t coming out here to live. Nope.

You hang in there, Tafari. All this will pass. Hopefully sooner rather than later, right?

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